CASUAL

We the happy couple will be dressed nicely. A suit and a dress, if things go as planned. Guests have no strict rules. If you want to rent a tux, that's on you—if you want to come in a baja and cargo shorts, the same goes.

Jeans are fine, though slacks are a reasonable upgrade if you live in luxury. Dresses are welcome, leaning more toward sun dress than ball gown.

Our wedding is on a FARM. Even though it is a nice farm, you will still be walking on dirt. When it rains, dirt becomes mud. That means if you’re desperate to wear heels, they better be wedges.

These guidelines are subject to the weather, and more importantly your comfort. Wear what feels good.